We have i-phones, i-pads and a lot of stress. We are busy. We need more intimate moments, to speak face-to-face to those who we really feel close. How can we get more I love you moments? We collected several ideas for you:
1. Tell this person that you really need him or her in your life
Chose more special words that really show how you feel about your partner. If you truly love someone, use loving words and deeds every single day. Be straightforward and express yourself clearly. Speak and don’t leave place for second guesses about anything in this relationship.
2. Touch with love
Hugs are something that we not only need to survive, but they are crucial for the normal human development. Hugs support building long-lasting relationships as well. If you do not feel sure whether time has come to be more intimate with your partner, ask. It is absolutely normal that you would like to step over boundaries, without hurting your beloved, or being rejected in an awkward situation.
3. Speak the truth.
What is the meaning of falling in love, if not to find the person, with whom you can be just as you are. Truth is the easiest thing to remember. Besides, when you build walls and put masks on your face, this is reflecting in a heavy burden on your emotional well-being. To tell the truth, even and especially when it hurts, frees mental space and supports your ability to connect with people you really care about. This honest strategy helps you take personal responsibility for what you did wrong. If you have hurt a loved one, admit your faults and face reality.
4. Ask thoughtful questions and listen intently.
Listen to your heart! Sometimes people try to shrink their feelings and put them somewhere deep, so that they do not hurt us. Such situations require that we put all of our intuition and knowledge and we listen to what stands beyond the words we hear. We have to ask questions and sometimes just stand calm without even saying a word.
5. Be responsible
Sometimes actions speak louder than words. No matter that you have a partner in the relationship; pretend that it is you who has to bring the passion into it. Dream more, surprise more and show more of your love. Forget that you also have to receive love. When you don’t expect anything in return, you will start feeling joy just because you deliver joy. And you will not be disappointed by your partner’s passiveness.